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A Gentler New Year: Finding the Joy, One Small Choice at a Time

The start of a new year often arrives with noise — resolutions, pressure, and promises to be more, do more, change everything.

👉 But what if this year didn’t need fixing?

At Find the Joy, I believe the New Year can be an invitation to Find Time for You, rather than a demand for perfection — a chance to pause, reflect, and gently ask:

What would help me feel a little better, a little calmer, a little more myself?

That question sits at the heart of Find the Joy — a space created to support women who give so much of themselves every day, and who deserve to stay self-well for life.

🌿 Finding a Healthier You (Without the Overwhelm)

One of the core pillars of Find the Joy is Find a Healthier You — not through restriction or rigid plans, but through nourishment, balance, and kindness.

Food is often where January focus lands, and understandably so. What we eat affects our energy, our mood, and how we move through our days. But instead of cutting things out, I encourage a gentler shift — adding in what supports you.


🧠 Good Food, Good Mood

I’m proud to be a Good Food, Good Mood Ambassador, because I’ve seen first-hand how food can support not just physical health, but emotional wellbeing too.

Nutritional psychiatrist Dr Uma Naidoo speaks widely about the connection between the food we eat, our gut health, and our mood — highlighting how whole, nutrient-rich foods can support emotional balance, focus, and resilience.

👉 Food isn’t just fuel — it’s information for your body and your brain.

Good Food, Good Mood

🌈 Eat the Rainbow: A Simple Place to Start

One of my favourite ways to support health (without complexity) is rainbow eating.

Eating a variety of colourful fruits and vegetables helps ensure you’re getting a wide range of nutrients — naturally and intuitively. It’s not about perfection or expensive ingredients, just small, joyful choices:

🍓 Bright berries and citrus fruits for antioxidants

🥦 Leafy greens for minerals and folate

🥕 Orange vegetables like carrots and squash for energy and immunity

🌱 Beans, lentils, seeds, and whole grains for fibre and steady blood sugar

🌈 Adding colour to your plate often adds joy too — and joy matters.


🌸 Nourishment Beyond the Plate

Health isn’t only about what we eat. It’s about how we live.

That’s why Find the Joy is built around Finding Time for You; a set of gentle, supportive pillars that work together for you:

🌿 Find a Healthier You – nourishing food and supportive habits

🌊 Find Your Flow – movement that feels good, not punishing

✨ Find Your Inspiration – books, voices, and ideas that uplift

🎨 Find You in Creativity – reconnecting with play and expression

🏠 Find Your Space Again – balance, boundaries, and breathing room

Together, the Find Time for You pillars offer a more sustainable way to feel well — especially for women juggling work, home, and caring for others.


A Different Kind of New Year Intention

This year, instead of resolutions, what if you chose support?

Instead of pressure, you chose permission?

Instead of “doing better,” you focused on feeling better?

Find the Joy is here to walk alongside you — with gentle encouragement, practical ideas, and reminders that well-being doesn’t need to be complicated to be powerful.

👉 Join Find the Joy

If this message resonates with you, I’d love for you to join the Find the Joy community.

Explore the pillars, read along with the blog, and take what you need — whether that’s inspiration, nourishment, creativity, or simply permission to slow down. Find the Joy is a space where small steps are celebrated, and where your well-being matters too.

✨ Here’s to a New Year filled with nourishment, balance, and moments of joy — one gentle choice at a time.

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Find Your Inspiration: The Quiet Joy of Finally Saying “It’s Happening”

Inspiration doesn’t always arrive as a lightning bolt.

Sometimes, it shows up slowly — in a note scribbled down, a conversation that lingers, a feeling that keeps gently tapping on your shoulder.

Today, I’m sharing one of those moments.

This week, I finally launched the Self Well Festival to staff.

Not with a big announcement or grand reveal, but with care, intention, and a deep sense of alignment. And in many ways, this is exactly what finding inspiration looks like to me.

The festival began as a question rather than an answer:

What would it look like if we truly created space for wellbeing — not as an add-on, but as something we actively choose?

That question became the spark. And over time, that spark turned into planning, conversations, and a vision rooted in slowing down rather than speeding up.

Over the coming weeks, the festival will unfold gently:

Staff will be able to explore sessions and pre-book in their own time Experts will be introduced one by one, allowing space to really understand what they offer Posters, emails, and quiet prompts will act as invitations rather than demands

This is where inspiration shifts from an idea into something tangible.

For me, the Find Your Inspiration pillar isn’t about chasing motivation or waiting to feel “ready.” It’s about noticing what matters, listening to it, and allowing it to grow at its own pace.

Launching the festival to staff feels like a reminder of that.

That inspiration is often quiet.

That meaningful things take time.

And that joy can be found not just in the final day, but in the moment you realise something you cared about is finally being shared.

As the festival moves closer to March, I want to hold onto this stage — the calm before the buzz. The gentle satisfaction of letting something purposeful step into the light.

This is inspiration, lived out.

And it feels like joy.

✨ Find Your Inspiration: Inventing the Life You Want, From the Inside Out

We often think of invention as something external.

👉 A new idea. A bold plan. A visible change.

But what if true invention is quieter than that?

What if it begins internally — in how we think, choose, and gently reshape the life we’re already living?


This week, I found inspiration in James Clear’s 3-2-1 Newsletter, where he reflects on the idea that real improvement happens when we compete internally rather than compare externally. And it landed deeply, because it echoes the heart of our Find Your Inspiration pillar.

✨ Inspiration Isn’t Found — It’s Remembered

In Find Your Inspiration, we talk about reconnecting with what lights you up, not chasing what looks impressive from the outside. Inspiration isn’t about becoming someone new; it’s about remembering who you are beneath the noise.

James Clear puts it simply:

When we compare ourselves to others, we measure success by outcomes we don’t control.

When we look inward, we measure progress by growth we do control.

That shift — from comparison to internal improvement — is where inspiration quietly returns.

Inventing Your Life Isn’t Reinvention

There’s a lot of pressure to reinvent yourself.

New year, new identity, new version.

But inspiration doesn’t demand a complete overhaul. Instead, it invites you to ask softer, braver questions:

What feels nourishing right now? What kind of life do I want to be living — day to day? Who am I becoming through my small, repeated choices?

This is the kind of invention that Find Your Inspiration encourages — not dramatic change, but intentional alignment.

Creating From the Inside First

One idea from James Clear that stood out was this:

The more you create, the more powerful you become. The more you consume, the more powerful others become.

Creation doesn’t have to mean producing something for the world to see. Sometimes creation looks like:

✨ creating space to think

✨ creating a boundary

✨ creating a habit that supports who you want to be

When inspiration comes from within, it’s sustainable. It doesn’t burn out or disappear when motivation dips. It grows as you grow.


💛 Defining Success on Your Terms

At the end of the newsletter, James asks:

What needs to happen for me to look back in December and consider the year a success?

This question feels especially aligned with Find Your Inspiration, because it asks you to define success internally, not by borrowed milestones.

Not:

What should I achieve? But: What kind of life do I want to be living?

Finding the Joy in Becoming

True invention isn’t loud.

It’s subtle.

It’s personal.

And it starts by looking inward.

When you stop comparing and start listening — to your values, your energy, your curiosity — you don’t just improve.

You find your inspiration again.

And that’s where joy begins.

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The Day We Find Out Why

✨ “There are two important days in our lives: the day we are born and the day we find out why.” — Mark Twain, American author

This quote has stayed with me because it reminds us that life isn’t just about existing — it’s about becoming. We all experience moments when we wonder what our purpose is, what meaning looks like, and how to feel truly alive in the time we have. Purpose and belonging sit at the heart of that longing. But discovering them isn’t about finding an elusive answer — it starts with paying attention to ourselves.


In a world full of noise, busyness, and endless to-dos, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters. That’s where the idea of finding time for you becomes so powerful. As the Find the Joy approach beautifully lays out, there are five pillars — from caring for your wellbeing and moving your body, to noticing inspiration and nurturing creativity — all designed to help you slow down, attune to your needs, and make space for joy in everyday life. 


Purpose doesn’t always arrive as a grand revelation. Often, it begins with small acts of self-listening: noticing what lifts your spirits, what you’re naturally curious about, and what moments make you feel most present. These are clues — gentle, authentic, and deeply personal — pointing toward what matters most to you.


When you listen to yourself — not to the world’s expectations, not to the voices of shoulds, but to your own inner spark — you start to notice patterns. You begin to see what inspires you, what brings you joy, and what reignites your energy. That’s where meaning starts to take shape.


And joy isn’t a distant destination. It’s something you invite in — in the pauses, in the creativity, and in the intentional choices that honour who you are right now. The pillars of Find Time for You show us that joy and purpose grow not from perfection or achievement, but from presence, intention, and self-care. 


So perhaps the second most important day in our lives — the one where we find out “why” — isn’t a single moment at all. Maybe it’s a collection of small, intentional steps: slowing down, listening inward, and being inspired by what lights us up.


Because when we find joy in what we do with our time — when our actions reflect who we truly are — fulfilment naturally follows.

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In the Quiet Places, I Find Myself Again

🌸 Some weeks you chase goals, and some weeks your body quietly catches up.

This week, as I saw a higher sleep score on my Fitbit — a gentle rise from what felt like endless just getting by nights — I felt something deeper than satisfaction: a soft sense of care for myself.

Find your Space Again

Sleep isn’t just a number. It’s a reflection of how we live, how we slow down, how we honour our wellbeing. That’s joy — in the everyday, the humble, the human.


Here’s how my sleep journey intertwined naturally with our Find Time for You pillars, with a few FitOn-backed strategies that gently supported that improvement. 

🌿 1. Find a Healthier You

Sleep is nourishment. It’s the time our bodies repair, reset, and rejuvenate. And getting more consistent rest has ripple effects: more energy, clearer focus, better immunity, brighter mood. 

💛 Some shifts that helped:

Built a calming evening routine — putting screens away and slowing down an hour before bed helped my nervous system ease into rest. 

Limited caffeine and alcohol later in the day, respecting my body’s rhythms and helping my circadian system find a steady beat. 

👉 These are small acts of nourishment — easy to overlook, profound in effect.


🌊 2. Find Your Flow

Movement isn’t just about exercise — it’s about feeling connected to your body. Gentle stretches or a short walk unlock tension, calm the mind, and signal to your body that today is ending, and rest is near. 

I noticed that on days I moved with intention — even something as simple as a few minutes of stretching — I slept more deeply. My Fitbit sleep score didn’t lie. That sense of flow during the day translated into ease at night.


✨ 3. Find Your Inspiration

Inspiration sparks when we slow down enough to notice beauty — the dusk light outside your window, a moment of breath, a comforting tea before bed. 

Some evenings, I poured a calming herbal tea, dimmed the lights, and read a few pages of a favourite book. These small inspired moments became markers of peace that my body learned to associate with rest.


🎨 4. Find You in Creativity

Creativity doesn’t have to be grand. It can be as simple as journaling before bed — a practice that clears the mind and declutters thoughts. This is creative rest: giving your brain space to unwind rather than chase tomorrow’s tasks. 

Even a short brain dump — scribbling thoughts on paper instead of letting them buzz in your head all night — made falling asleep feel easier.


🏡 5. Find Your Space Again

Your environment can be a sanctuary. A cool, dark, quiet room set the stage for restful sleep. Little adjustments — blackout curtains, removing devices, lowering the thermostat — all helped create a space that invited sleep. 

This pillar reminded me that peace isn’t just an abstract idea — it can be a physical space that my nervous system recognises as rest time.


🌸 How This All Felt

I didn’t wake up perfect. No one does. But this week’s sleep score wasn’t just a number — it was a sign that the small choices matter. That when we nourish our body, move in ways that feel good, invite rest into our routines, express stillness creatively, and craft a peaceful bedtime space, we cultivate wellbeing from the inside out. 


❤️ Sleep is not something we conquer.

It’s something we invite — with patience, kindness, and simplicity. And when we do, we find not just rest, but a deeper joy in taking care of ourselves.

Tonight, I’ll turn off the lights not chasing perfection, but welcoming rest.

And that feels like joy.


💛 If you’re looking for gentle ways to unwind, FitOn has a beautiful selection of sleep meditations and wind-down practices to support deeper rest.

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Finding Joy in Family Listening — Beyond Commands and to Connection

✨ At Find the Joy, wellbeing isn’t just a nice idea — it’s my top priority for families. I believe in nurturing simplicity, presence and connection in everyday life, not perfection. Whether it’s what we eat, how we move, or how we talk and listen to each other, wellbeing is woven into every moment we choose to show up fully. 

Life can become so full of routines and to-dos that we slip into autopilot — issuing commands, reminding, urging, and expecting compliance. As thoughtful parenting voices remind us, that cycle often replaces listening with demands. Instead of connection, we get resistance. Parents ask: How do we help our children really listen — not because they have to, but because they feel heard and understood? 


✨ Inspiration for Intentional Listening

Inspiration — the kind that gently shifts how we live — often comes from small, reflective moments. That’s what Find Your Inspiration is all about: slowing down, noticing what lights us up, and letting ideas that nourish wellbeing and joy into our lives. 

This applies beautifully to how we relate as families. When we prioritise connection first, even in the everyday moments, we create the space where true listening can grow.


✨ Moments That Shift the Pattern

Here are some ways families can step out of command-mode and step into connection — rooted in the same mindful approach that underpins Find the Joy:

💛 Pause Before You Speak

Instead of the first instinct being a directive, take a breath. Eye contact, a gentle tone, and a moment of presence invite a child into connection before any request is made.

💛 Ask With Curiosity

Questions like “How can I help?” or “What do you need right now?” show your child that their feelings — not just their actions — matter. This invites dialogue instead of obedience.

💛 Share the ‘Why’

When children understand why something matters (“We need to eat together for our health and energy”), their motivation becomes internal rather than just responsive.

💛 Reflect Feelings Back

Sometimes what feels like resistance is emotion speaking. Naming what you see — “You seem frustrated right now” — shows your child they are seen, which opens the door to cooperation.

These gentle shifts aren’t quick fixes — they’re part of a compassionate rhythm that builds trust and wellbeing over time.


🌸 Why This Matters for Wellbeing

Wellbeing isn’t solely about healthy food, mindfulness walks or simple pleasures (though all of these matter). It’s also about how we communicate and connect with the people we love. When families cultivate listening instead of just obedience, the fabric of everyday life becomes warmer, deeper and more joyful — even in its messiest moments.

This is inspiration in action — not something grand, but something felt.


💛 A Gentle Reminder

Just like the inspiration I explore here at Find the Joy, shifting how we relate doesn’t demand perfection. One thoughtful conversation today can shape tomorrow’s connection.

Let’s find joy not only in what we do together, but in the way we hear each other — fully and with care.


✨ Where This Inspiration Began

This reflection was inspired by a thoughtful article from Parents Doing Better that explores how children are more likely to listen when they feel connected, respected and emotionally safe — rather than managed through commands and demands. It beautifully reinforces the idea that listening is built through relationship, not control.

If this topic resonates with you, I really encourage you to read the full article here:

👉 Getting Your Child to Listen Without… on Substack

https://open.substack.com/pub/parentsdoingbetter/p/getting-your-child-to-listen-without?r=2h60qc&utm_medium=ios&shareImageVariant=overlay


🌿 Bringing It Back to Family Wellbeing

At Find the Joy, family wellbeing is always my top priority. To me, wellbeing lives not only in how we care for our bodies and minds, but in how we relate to one another every day — in the small exchanges, the tone of our voices, and our willingness to truly listen.

When we step off autopilot and soften our approach, we create homes where children feel safe to express themselves, and where parents feel less drained by power struggles. These moments of connection — however imperfect — are where trust grows, resilience strengthens, and joy quietly takes root.

Because finding joy isn’t about getting everything right.

👉It’s about choosing presence, again and again.

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🥑 Avocado: A Creamy, Nourishing Superfood for a Healthier You

Avocados are more than a trendy toast topping — they’re a nutritional powerhouse that can make healthy eating feel joyful and effortless. Packed with healthy fats, fiber, vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants, avocados support heart, brain, and gut health while tasting delicious in a variety of ways.

Whether blended into a smoothie, mashed onto eggs, or drizzled with extra virgin olive oil, this creamy superfood is a staple in a balanced, feel-good lifestyle — just as Dr Uma champions in her mood-food series.

🌿 Why Avocados Are So Good for You

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🧠 Heart-Friendly, Nutrient-Rich Fats

Avocados are high in monounsaturated fats, the “good” fats that can help lower LDL (bad) cholesterol while supporting HDL (good) cholesterol. These healthy fats nourish your heart and help maintain balanced energy levels throughout the day.


💪 Gut & Digestive Support

Avocados are a gut-friendly source of healthy fats, along with extra virgin olive oil, coconut oil, and fatty fish like salmon and sardines. Healthy fats like these help feed beneficial gut bacteria, support digestion, and reduce inflammation in the digestive tract — all vital for overall wellbeing.

Easy ways to include gut-friendly fats at breakfast:

🥑 Make egg and avocado toast topped with hemp seeds for added fiber and nutrients.

🥑 Blend collagen into your breakfast smoothie for extra protein and gut support.

🥑 Drizzle extra virgin olive oil over a warm breakfast bowl of sautéed greens and eggs.

Including avocado in your meals not only nourishes your body but also helps maintain a healthy gut microbiome — an essential part of feeling energized and thriving every day.


🥑 Avocados in Smoothies: Creamy + Nutrient-Dense

One of the simplest ways to enjoy avocado is in creamy, satisfying smoothies. Its mild flavor and thick texture make smoothies feel indulgent while still delivering fiber, healthy fats, and vitamins.

Avocado is the perfect creamy base to your smoothie

Eat Bird Food – inspired smoothie ideas:

🥑 Avocado Green Smoothie: Avocado, spinach, almond milk, dates, and a scoop of protein.

🥭 Avocado Mango Smoothie: Avocado, frozen mango, shredded coconut, and lime.

Tip: Adding avocado to smoothies helps your body absorb fat-soluble vitamins (A, D, E, K) from other fruits and greens, making your breakfast even more nourishing.


🍳 Avocado + Eggs: A Perfect Pair

Avocado’s natural creaminess makes it the perfect partner for eggs. Together, they provide healthy fats, protein, and fiber — keeping you full and supporting your digestive health.

Try these delicious combinations:

🍳 Avocado Egg Salad: Swap mayonnaise for mashed avocado for a gut-friendly twist.

🍳 Baked Avocado Eggs: Crack eggs into avocado halves and bake for a filling breakfast.

🍳 Egg & Avocado Toast: Top with hemp seeds for extra fiber and crunch.

These simple pairings are not just tasty — they’re a practical way to include healthy fats and gut-supporting nutrients into your everyday meals.


🥑 Simple Ways to Enjoy Avocados

Blend into smoothies for creamy texture and gut-supporting fiber Pair with eggs — on toast, in salads, or baked Mash into spreads or dressings Add to salads or grain bowls for richness and satisfaction

Avocados are more than just delicious — they’re a gentle, nourishing way to support heart, brain, and gut health every day. And as Dr Uma reminds us, food is not just fuel; it’s a simple, joyful form of self-care.

By including avocados in your meals, you’re not just eating — you’re finding a healthier you, one creamy bite at a time.

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Finding Your Flow: A New Year’s Yoga Reflection

As the calendar turns and we welcome another year, I found myself drawn back to a yoga session that felt especially meaningful — not just as physical movement, but as a gentle invitation to reconnect with my intentions, breath, and presence.

What struck me most about this practice was the sentiment of renewal woven through every posture and pause. There was a quiet wisdom in the guidance: that every time we step onto our mats, we are offered a fresh beginning. A chance to let go of yesterday’s tension, to reset our minds, and to show up — fully — in the moment ahead.


🌊 More than Movement — a Mindset Shift

Often, we think of New Year’s resolutions as something that happens on one specific day, at one specific time. But this session reminded me that transformation isn’t a single moment — it’s a series of small, intentional choices.

Each breath in yoga became symbolic of that choice:

✨ Inhale — openness to possibility.

✨ Exhale — release of doubt or worry.

This rhythm, so simple yet profound, mirrored something deeper: the idea that every session — every breath — is an invitation to start anew.


🌸 Stretching More Than the Body

As we moved through the practice, the simple act of opening our palms became a quiet lesson in intention. As we open our palms, we not only gesture toward receiving love — but releasing it, too. It is a subtle reminder that energy is meant to move, not be held tightly.

The invitation extended beyond our hands and into every pose: to experience each movement as if it were the very first time. Not rushing ahead, not comparing, but truly listening — noticing how the body responds in that moment. How the muscles feel as they lengthen, where there is ease, and where there is resistance asking for patience rather than force.

When we stretch our muscles with awareness, something deeper happens. We begin to stretch our mindset too.

Just as tight muscles soften with breath and time, so can the strong opinions and fixed narratives we carry. Yoga gently asks us: What if we approached our beliefs the same way we approach a pose? With curiosity instead of certainty. With openness instead of expectation.

What might shift if we allowed ourselves to explore familiar positions — on the mat and in life — with fresh eyes? To notice where we are holding on unnecessarily, and where a little softness could create more space.

This practice becomes more than movement. It becomes a way of meeting the new year — and ourselves — with presence, compassion, and a willingness to begin again.


🌿 Seeing Each Practice as a Fresh Beginning

What does it mean to see your yoga session — or any mindful moment — as a chance to start over?

It means letting go of perfection — yesterday’s achievements and failures alike. It means bringing curiosity instead of judgment to each pose. And most of all, it means recognizing that progress isn’t linear — it’s compassionate, patient, and present.

When we treat each practice as a fresh beginning, we invite a gentle resilience into our days. We learn that growth doesn’t always roar — sometimes it whispers, in the quiet steadiness of breath and movement.


✨ Embracing a Year of Possibility

As we move through winter into spring, and through the many seasons of this year, I’ll return again and again to this idea: that flow isn’t just physical — it’s mental, emotional, and spiritual too.

This yoga session didn’t give me a list of goals — it gave me a deeper mindset:

🌿 Be here now.

🌿 Start again.

🌿 Breathe.

🌿 Repeat.

And in that simple cycle, I find my inspiration.


💛 A Gentle Beginning, Again and Again

Perhaps this is the quiet gift of yoga as we step into a new year: the reminder that we don’t need to get it right — we simply need to show up. Each time we come to the mat, we are offered another beginning. Another opportunity to listen, to soften, to open our palms and our perspectives.

When we allow each practice to feel like the first time — noticing the stretch of our muscles and the stories in our minds — we create space not just in the body, but in the way we move through life. Space to question long-held opinions, to meet ourselves with curiosity, and to let growth unfold naturally rather than forcefully.

This session on FitOn felt like a quiet invitation into that mindset: to start fresh without pressure, to flow without expectation, and to trust that small moments of presence are enough. Not a dramatic reset — just a gentle return to ourselves.

And maybe that’s all the new year is really asking of us:

to breathe, to begin again, and to find our flow — one moment at a time.

👉 If you’re looking for a gentle way to reset this season, this reflective yoga session on FitOn is a beautiful place to begin.

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🌿 Be Nourished — A Moment of Inspiration for the Week

Inspiration isn’t loud. Often, it doesn’t arrive with fanfare or flourish — it shows up in quiet moments of reflection, curiosity, and stillness.

Just like the gentle joy we seek in everyday life, it’s something to be noticed, welcomed, and savoured. 

This week, I found myself lingering on one idea from James Clear’s 3-2-1 Thursday newsletter — one that feels especially kind and nourishing: not all thoughts deserve to be “drunk in.” 


💧 Thoughts as Water

Imagine your mind like a cup. When rain falls, most of it simply washes past — it’s momentary, it shapes nothing, and it moves on. But when water collects in a cup, it becomes something you can drink — something that nourishes you. It stays with you, becomes part of you, and supports you from the inside out. 

So often our days are full of passing thoughts — worries, comparisons, leftover to-dos — that feel important in the moment but leave us feeling heavier rather than lighter. What if, instead, we chose only those thoughts that feed us?


🌱 Choosing Nourishing Ideas

Inspired living doesn’t come from consuming more — it comes from choosing better. It comes from the small, intentional ways we invite what matters into our inner world, letting go of the rest with gentle curiosity and kindness. 

This week, try these tiny invitations:

✨ Notice what you read or listen to — does it spark warmth, curiosity, clarity?

✨ Pause before you absorb a thought — is it nourishing, or just passing like rain?

✨ Allow inspiration to guide your next small action — a moment of reflection, a walk outside, a conversation that feels real. 


🌼 A Gentle Reminder

You don’t need to overhaul your life to feel inspired. One idea, one insight, one meaningful thought can be enough to shift your perspective — just like a sip of water can quiet thirst. 

Today, choose to drink in what nourishes you — the thoughts that uplift, the insights that encourage growth, and the reflections that gently guide you forward. In doing so, you make space for clarity, joy, and deeper wellbeing.

✨ May your week be filled with small, nourishing moments — and the kind of inspiration that feels like a breath of fresh air.

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Wellness Wednesday – Why Finding Time for You Is How You Find the Joy – FitOn

A Letter to All Mums

At Find the Joy, I believe joy doesn’t wait for perfect moments — it lives in your everyday life when you choose to notice it. One of the most powerful choices you can make as a mum is this:

Finding time for you isn’t optional — it’s essential.

This idea is at the heart of our Find Time for You pillars — and wonderfully echoed in the FitOn article “A Letter to All Moms: It’s Ok To Take Time For You” which reminds mums everywhere that taking time for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s restorative and necessary. 

👉 You can read the full FitOn article here: https://fitonapp.com/self-care/self-care-for-moms/. 


What “Find Time for You” Really Means

If you’ve ever thought:

“I’ll take time for myself when things get quieter…”

that’s a feeling many of us share.

But here’s the truth we explore in our Find Time for You pillars:

There is no perfect “later.”

There’s only now — and the intentional spaces you choose to create within your busy day.

That’s why finding time for you isn’t about adding more hours to your schedule. It’s about noticing the pockets of possibility already there — a few minutes before everyone wakes up, a short walk between chores, or simply sipping a warm drink while it’s still hot.

The FitOn article beautifully reinforces this point, encouraging mums to start small and notice how even brief moments of self-care can uplift your mood, soothe your mind, and help you show up more fully in your life and relationships. 


Small Moments Have Big Power

In Find Time for You, we share simple, doable ideas like:

✨ Noticing your breath before the day begins

✨ Gentle movement or a quick stretch

✨ Quiet moments of stillness with your favourite drink

These aren’t big life changes — they’re tiny choices that help you reconnect with yourself so joy becomes easier to find.

And that’s exactly what the FitOn message affirms: self-care isn’t self-ish — it’s nurturing your ability to be present, calm, and connected. 


You Don’t Need Permission — But Here It Is

🌸 You are allowed to take time for yourself — without guilt.

🌸 You are allowed to breathe.

🌸 You are allowed to slow down and be present.

Because finding time for you is how you create space for joy — not someplace you get to when life slows down, but right here, right now, within the life you’re living.

So today, consider this your gentle reminder:

💛 You deserve those moments just for you

💛 Intentional time fuels joy

💛 Small choices add up to big impact

When you Find the Joy, remember joy isn’t found when everything changes — joy is found when you take time to notice!

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