Finding Joy in Family Listening — Beyond Commands and to Connection

✨ At Find the Joy, wellbeing isn’t just a nice idea — it’s my top priority for families. I believe in nurturing simplicity, presence and connection in everyday life, not perfection. Whether it’s what we eat, how we move, or how we talk and listen to each other, wellbeing is woven into every moment we choose to show up fully. 

Life can become so full of routines and to-dos that we slip into autopilot — issuing commands, reminding, urging, and expecting compliance. As thoughtful parenting voices remind us, that cycle often replaces listening with demands. Instead of connection, we get resistance. Parents ask: How do we help our children really listen — not because they have to, but because they feel heard and understood? 


✨ Inspiration for Intentional Listening

Inspiration — the kind that gently shifts how we live — often comes from small, reflective moments. That’s what Find Your Inspiration is all about: slowing down, noticing what lights us up, and letting ideas that nourish wellbeing and joy into our lives. 

This applies beautifully to how we relate as families. When we prioritise connection first, even in the everyday moments, we create the space where true listening can grow.


✨ Moments That Shift the Pattern

Here are some ways families can step out of command-mode and step into connection — rooted in the same mindful approach that underpins Find the Joy:

💛 Pause Before You Speak

Instead of the first instinct being a directive, take a breath. Eye contact, a gentle tone, and a moment of presence invite a child into connection before any request is made.

💛 Ask With Curiosity

Questions like “How can I help?” or “What do you need right now?” show your child that their feelings — not just their actions — matter. This invites dialogue instead of obedience.

💛 Share the ‘Why’

When children understand why something matters (“We need to eat together for our health and energy”), their motivation becomes internal rather than just responsive.

💛 Reflect Feelings Back

Sometimes what feels like resistance is emotion speaking. Naming what you see — “You seem frustrated right now” — shows your child they are seen, which opens the door to cooperation.

These gentle shifts aren’t quick fixes — they’re part of a compassionate rhythm that builds trust and wellbeing over time.


🌸 Why This Matters for Wellbeing

Wellbeing isn’t solely about healthy food, mindfulness walks or simple pleasures (though all of these matter). It’s also about how we communicate and connect with the people we love. When families cultivate listening instead of just obedience, the fabric of everyday life becomes warmer, deeper and more joyful — even in its messiest moments.

This is inspiration in action — not something grand, but something felt.


💛 A Gentle Reminder

Just like the inspiration I explore here at Find the Joy, shifting how we relate doesn’t demand perfection. One thoughtful conversation today can shape tomorrow’s connection.

Let’s find joy not only in what we do together, but in the way we hear each other — fully and with care.


✨ Where This Inspiration Began

This reflection was inspired by a thoughtful article from Parents Doing Better that explores how children are more likely to listen when they feel connected, respected and emotionally safe — rather than managed through commands and demands. It beautifully reinforces the idea that listening is built through relationship, not control.

If this topic resonates with you, I really encourage you to read the full article here:

👉 Getting Your Child to Listen Without… on Substack

https://open.substack.com/pub/parentsdoingbetter/p/getting-your-child-to-listen-without?r=2h60qc&utm_medium=ios&shareImageVariant=overlay


🌿 Bringing It Back to Family Wellbeing

At Find the Joy, family wellbeing is always my top priority. To me, wellbeing lives not only in how we care for our bodies and minds, but in how we relate to one another every day — in the small exchanges, the tone of our voices, and our willingness to truly listen.

When we step off autopilot and soften our approach, we create homes where children feel safe to express themselves, and where parents feel less drained by power struggles. These moments of connection — however imperfect — are where trust grows, resilience strengthens, and joy quietly takes root.

Because finding joy isn’t about getting everything right.

👉It’s about choosing presence, again and again.

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🥑 Avocado: A Creamy, Nourishing Superfood for a Healthier You

Avocados are more than a trendy toast topping — they’re a nutritional powerhouse that can make healthy eating feel joyful and effortless. Packed with healthy fats, fiber, vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants, avocados support heart, brain, and gut health while tasting delicious in a variety of ways.

Whether blended into a smoothie, mashed onto eggs, or drizzled with extra virgin olive oil, this creamy superfood is a staple in a balanced, feel-good lifestyle — just as Dr Uma champions in her mood-food series.

🌿 Why Avocados Are So Good for You

Avocado Avenger

🧠 Heart-Friendly, Nutrient-Rich Fats

Avocados are high in monounsaturated fats, the “good” fats that can help lower LDL (bad) cholesterol while supporting HDL (good) cholesterol. These healthy fats nourish your heart and help maintain balanced energy levels throughout the day.


💪 Gut & Digestive Support

Avocados are a gut-friendly source of healthy fats, along with extra virgin olive oil, coconut oil, and fatty fish like salmon and sardines. Healthy fats like these help feed beneficial gut bacteria, support digestion, and reduce inflammation in the digestive tract — all vital for overall wellbeing.

Easy ways to include gut-friendly fats at breakfast:

🥑 Make egg and avocado toast topped with hemp seeds for added fiber and nutrients.

🥑 Blend collagen into your breakfast smoothie for extra protein and gut support.

🥑 Drizzle extra virgin olive oil over a warm breakfast bowl of sautéed greens and eggs.

Including avocado in your meals not only nourishes your body but also helps maintain a healthy gut microbiome — an essential part of feeling energized and thriving every day.


🥑 Avocados in Smoothies: Creamy + Nutrient-Dense

One of the simplest ways to enjoy avocado is in creamy, satisfying smoothies. Its mild flavor and thick texture make smoothies feel indulgent while still delivering fiber, healthy fats, and vitamins.

Avocado is the perfect creamy base to your smoothie

Eat Bird Food – inspired smoothie ideas:

🥑 Avocado Green Smoothie: Avocado, spinach, almond milk, dates, and a scoop of protein.

🥭 Avocado Mango Smoothie: Avocado, frozen mango, shredded coconut, and lime.

Tip: Adding avocado to smoothies helps your body absorb fat-soluble vitamins (A, D, E, K) from other fruits and greens, making your breakfast even more nourishing.


🍳 Avocado + Eggs: A Perfect Pair

Avocado’s natural creaminess makes it the perfect partner for eggs. Together, they provide healthy fats, protein, and fiber — keeping you full and supporting your digestive health.

Try these delicious combinations:

🍳 Avocado Egg Salad: Swap mayonnaise for mashed avocado for a gut-friendly twist.

🍳 Baked Avocado Eggs: Crack eggs into avocado halves and bake for a filling breakfast.

🍳 Egg & Avocado Toast: Top with hemp seeds for extra fiber and crunch.

These simple pairings are not just tasty — they’re a practical way to include healthy fats and gut-supporting nutrients into your everyday meals.


🥑 Simple Ways to Enjoy Avocados

Blend into smoothies for creamy texture and gut-supporting fiber Pair with eggs — on toast, in salads, or baked Mash into spreads or dressings Add to salads or grain bowls for richness and satisfaction

Avocados are more than just delicious — they’re a gentle, nourishing way to support heart, brain, and gut health every day. And as Dr Uma reminds us, food is not just fuel; it’s a simple, joyful form of self-care.

By including avocados in your meals, you’re not just eating — you’re finding a healthier you, one creamy bite at a time.

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Finding Your Flow: A New Year’s Yoga Reflection

As the calendar turns and we welcome another year, I found myself drawn back to a yoga session that felt especially meaningful — not just as physical movement, but as a gentle invitation to reconnect with my intentions, breath, and presence.

What struck me most about this practice was the sentiment of renewal woven through every posture and pause. There was a quiet wisdom in the guidance: that every time we step onto our mats, we are offered a fresh beginning. A chance to let go of yesterday’s tension, to reset our minds, and to show up — fully — in the moment ahead.


🌊 More than Movement — a Mindset Shift

Often, we think of New Year’s resolutions as something that happens on one specific day, at one specific time. But this session reminded me that transformation isn’t a single moment — it’s a series of small, intentional choices.

Each breath in yoga became symbolic of that choice:

✨ Inhale — openness to possibility.

✨ Exhale — release of doubt or worry.

This rhythm, so simple yet profound, mirrored something deeper: the idea that every session — every breath — is an invitation to start anew.


🌸 Stretching More Than the Body

As we moved through the practice, the simple act of opening our palms became a quiet lesson in intention. As we open our palms, we not only gesture toward receiving love — but releasing it, too. It is a subtle reminder that energy is meant to move, not be held tightly.

The invitation extended beyond our hands and into every pose: to experience each movement as if it were the very first time. Not rushing ahead, not comparing, but truly listening — noticing how the body responds in that moment. How the muscles feel as they lengthen, where there is ease, and where there is resistance asking for patience rather than force.

When we stretch our muscles with awareness, something deeper happens. We begin to stretch our mindset too.

Just as tight muscles soften with breath and time, so can the strong opinions and fixed narratives we carry. Yoga gently asks us: What if we approached our beliefs the same way we approach a pose? With curiosity instead of certainty. With openness instead of expectation.

What might shift if we allowed ourselves to explore familiar positions — on the mat and in life — with fresh eyes? To notice where we are holding on unnecessarily, and where a little softness could create more space.

This practice becomes more than movement. It becomes a way of meeting the new year — and ourselves — with presence, compassion, and a willingness to begin again.


🌿 Seeing Each Practice as a Fresh Beginning

What does it mean to see your yoga session — or any mindful moment — as a chance to start over?

It means letting go of perfection — yesterday’s achievements and failures alike. It means bringing curiosity instead of judgment to each pose. And most of all, it means recognizing that progress isn’t linear — it’s compassionate, patient, and present.

When we treat each practice as a fresh beginning, we invite a gentle resilience into our days. We learn that growth doesn’t always roar — sometimes it whispers, in the quiet steadiness of breath and movement.


✨ Embracing a Year of Possibility

As we move through winter into spring, and through the many seasons of this year, I’ll return again and again to this idea: that flow isn’t just physical — it’s mental, emotional, and spiritual too.

This yoga session didn’t give me a list of goals — it gave me a deeper mindset:

🌿 Be here now.

🌿 Start again.

🌿 Breathe.

🌿 Repeat.

And in that simple cycle, I find my inspiration.


💛 A Gentle Beginning, Again and Again

Perhaps this is the quiet gift of yoga as we step into a new year: the reminder that we don’t need to get it right — we simply need to show up. Each time we come to the mat, we are offered another beginning. Another opportunity to listen, to soften, to open our palms and our perspectives.

When we allow each practice to feel like the first time — noticing the stretch of our muscles and the stories in our minds — we create space not just in the body, but in the way we move through life. Space to question long-held opinions, to meet ourselves with curiosity, and to let growth unfold naturally rather than forcefully.

This session on FitOn felt like a quiet invitation into that mindset: to start fresh without pressure, to flow without expectation, and to trust that small moments of presence are enough. Not a dramatic reset — just a gentle return to ourselves.

And maybe that’s all the new year is really asking of us:

to breathe, to begin again, and to find our flow — one moment at a time.

👉 If you’re looking for a gentle way to reset this season, this reflective yoga session on FitOn is a beautiful place to begin.

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🌿 Be Nourished — A Moment of Inspiration for the Week

Inspiration isn’t loud. Often, it doesn’t arrive with fanfare or flourish — it shows up in quiet moments of reflection, curiosity, and stillness.

Just like the gentle joy we seek in everyday life, it’s something to be noticed, welcomed, and savoured. 

This week, I found myself lingering on one idea from James Clear’s 3-2-1 Thursday newsletter — one that feels especially kind and nourishing: not all thoughts deserve to be “drunk in.” 


💧 Thoughts as Water

Imagine your mind like a cup. When rain falls, most of it simply washes past — it’s momentary, it shapes nothing, and it moves on. But when water collects in a cup, it becomes something you can drink — something that nourishes you. It stays with you, becomes part of you, and supports you from the inside out. 

So often our days are full of passing thoughts — worries, comparisons, leftover to-dos — that feel important in the moment but leave us feeling heavier rather than lighter. What if, instead, we chose only those thoughts that feed us?


🌱 Choosing Nourishing Ideas

Inspired living doesn’t come from consuming more — it comes from choosing better. It comes from the small, intentional ways we invite what matters into our inner world, letting go of the rest with gentle curiosity and kindness. 

This week, try these tiny invitations:

✨ Notice what you read or listen to — does it spark warmth, curiosity, clarity?

✨ Pause before you absorb a thought — is it nourishing, or just passing like rain?

✨ Allow inspiration to guide your next small action — a moment of reflection, a walk outside, a conversation that feels real. 


🌼 A Gentle Reminder

You don’t need to overhaul your life to feel inspired. One idea, one insight, one meaningful thought can be enough to shift your perspective — just like a sip of water can quiet thirst. 

Today, choose to drink in what nourishes you — the thoughts that uplift, the insights that encourage growth, and the reflections that gently guide you forward. In doing so, you make space for clarity, joy, and deeper wellbeing.

✨ May your week be filled with small, nourishing moments — and the kind of inspiration that feels like a breath of fresh air.

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Wellness Wednesday – Why Finding Time for You Is How You Find the Joy – FitOn

A Letter to All Mums

At Find the Joy, I believe joy doesn’t wait for perfect moments — it lives in your everyday life when you choose to notice it. One of the most powerful choices you can make as a mum is this:

Finding time for you isn’t optional — it’s essential.

This idea is at the heart of our Find Time for You pillars — and wonderfully echoed in the FitOn article “A Letter to All Moms: It’s Ok To Take Time For You” which reminds mums everywhere that taking time for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s restorative and necessary. 

👉 You can read the full FitOn article here: https://fitonapp.com/self-care/self-care-for-moms/. 


What “Find Time for You” Really Means

If you’ve ever thought:

“I’ll take time for myself when things get quieter…”

that’s a feeling many of us share.

But here’s the truth we explore in our Find Time for You pillars:

There is no perfect “later.”

There’s only now — and the intentional spaces you choose to create within your busy day.

That’s why finding time for you isn’t about adding more hours to your schedule. It’s about noticing the pockets of possibility already there — a few minutes before everyone wakes up, a short walk between chores, or simply sipping a warm drink while it’s still hot.

The FitOn article beautifully reinforces this point, encouraging mums to start small and notice how even brief moments of self-care can uplift your mood, soothe your mind, and help you show up more fully in your life and relationships. 


Small Moments Have Big Power

In Find Time for You, we share simple, doable ideas like:

✨ Noticing your breath before the day begins

✨ Gentle movement or a quick stretch

✨ Quiet moments of stillness with your favourite drink

These aren’t big life changes — they’re tiny choices that help you reconnect with yourself so joy becomes easier to find.

And that’s exactly what the FitOn message affirms: self-care isn’t self-ish — it’s nurturing your ability to be present, calm, and connected. 


You Don’t Need Permission — But Here It Is

🌸 You are allowed to take time for yourself — without guilt.

🌸 You are allowed to breathe.

🌸 You are allowed to slow down and be present.

Because finding time for you is how you create space for joy — not someplace you get to when life slows down, but right here, right now, within the life you’re living.

So today, consider this your gentle reminder:

💛 You deserve those moments just for you

💛 Intentional time fuels joy

💛 Small choices add up to big impact

When you Find the Joy, remember joy isn’t found when everything changes — joy is found when you take time to notice!

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Yes — Chocolate Can Be Healthy (When You Choose & Eat It the Right Way)

As someone who regularly follows Dr. Uma Naidoo’s Mood Food series, I’m always fascinated by the powerful links between nutrition and mental wellbeing. One of her most refreshing messages is that health-supportive eating doesn’t have to feel restrictive — in fact, some of the foods we love can actively support our brains and bodies.

Chocolate is one of them.

Here’s how. 

🌱 What Makes Chocolate Healthy?

1. Rich in Powerful Plant Compounds

Cacao — the raw ingredient of chocolate — is rich in flavonoids and polyphenols, antioxidant compounds that combat oxidative stress and inflammation. These plant compounds help protect cells from damage and support overall wellness. 

❤️ Heart Health and Circulation

One of the most studied benefits of dark chocolate is its potential impact on the cardiovascular system.

The flavonoids in dark chocolate may help improve blood flow, relax blood vessels, and lower blood pressure.  Dark chocolate has been linked with better cholesterol profiles, including lower “bad” LDL cholesterol and higher “good” HDL cholesterol.  Some research also suggests modest reductions in risk factors for cardiovascular diseases, especially when dark chocolate is consumed in moderation as part of a balanced diet. 

🧠 Brain Health & Mood Support

Chocolate isn’t just about pleasure — it can also support your brain.

The flavanols in cacao may increase blood flow to the brain, potentially improving memory, attention, and cognitive function.  Compounds like theobromine and small amounts of caffeine may help with alertness and focus.  Chocolate also triggers the release of feel-good neurotransmitters and contains micronutrients (like magnesium) that can influence mood and stress. 

🩸 Diabetes & Metabolic Health

Moderate dark chocolate intake has been linked with improved insulin sensitivity and a lower risk of type 2 diabetes in some large observational studies — effects thought to be related to flavonoid content. 

🧬 Emerging Science: Aging and DNA Health

Some recent research highlights a fascinating association between theobromine levels (a compound richly present in dark chocolate) and markers of biological aging. Individuals with higher theobromine tended to show signs of slower cellular aging — although this is early research and not a justification to eat chocolate indiscriminately. 

🍫 How to Choose & Enjoy Chocolate the Healthy Way

Not all chocolate is created equal. Here’s how to get the most benefit:

✔ Go for high-cocoa dark chocolate (70% or more) — richer in flavonoids and lower in added sugars. 

✔ Enjoy small portions mindfully — a square or two can satisfy cravings without excess calories.

✔ Watch added ingredients — minimal additives and less sugar help maximise health potential.

✔ Pair with balanced meals — chocolate isn’t a superfood on its own but can be part of a health-supportive pattern.

⚠️ A Note on Moderation

Even healthy dark chocolate is energy-dense — meaning calories, fat, and sugar can add up quickly if you’re not mindful. White chocolate and many milk chocolates lack the beneficial polyphenols that dark chocolate provides, so they don’t offer the same potential benefits. 

🍃 Bottom Line

Dr. Uma’s Mood Food approach reminds us that nourishment is about more than nutrients — it’s about pleasure, connection, and sustainability. Chocolate, especially dark chocolate rich in cacao, beautifully embodies this philosophy.

When enjoyed intentionally, it can support mood, brain health, heart health, and even our relationship with food itself. A small square, eaten mindfully, can be both comforting and clinically meaningful.

Now that’s something worth savouring. 🍫✨


Good Food, Good Mood


How to Rediscover Yourself — James Clear

Every New Year, millions of us swear we’ll fix something about ourselves — lose weight, be more productive, stop procrastinating. But what if the real work isn’t about fixing who you are?

What if it’s about finding yourself again — your values, your identity, the parts of you that got buried under expectations, pressure, and constant “self-improvement”?

This week, I found myself reflecting on the January 1st edition of James Clear’s 3-2-1 newsletter, a weekly series I regularly return to for inspiration and perspective:

👉 https://jamesclear.com/3-2-1/january-1-2026

Why “Fixing Yourself” Rarely Works

So much personal development language assumes we’re broken.

Fix your habits.

Fix your mindset.

Fix your productivity.

But James Clear offers a quieter, more compassionate reframe: lasting change doesn’t start with goals — it starts with identity.

Goals tell you what you want.

Identity shapes who you become.

And when you skip the identity part, even the best goals struggle to stick.

Identity Is About Remembering, Not Reinventing

One idea from the 3-2-1 series that always stays with me is this:

New goals don’t create new results. New lifestyles do.

That matters because lifestyles are lived by people — not projects.

When we obsess over outcomes, we often lose ourselves in the process. But when we focus on identity, we begin to remember who we are rather than constantly trying to become someone else.

Instead of:

“I need to read more” “I need to be healthier” “I need to be more disciplined”

The shift becomes:

I’m a reader I care for my body I show up for myself

Each small habit becomes a quiet vote for your identity.

Finding Yourself Through Small Choices

This is why I’m drawn to James Clear’s work — and why I revisit the 3-2-1 newsletter each week. It doesn’t shout instructions. It offers reflection.

Finding yourself doesn’t happen through massive overhauls. It happens through small, honest moments:

Choosing what aligns with you today Letting go of habits that no longer reflect who you are Creating space to notice what brings you calm, joy, and meaning

You’re not fixing flaws — you’re reconnecting with your values.

A Question Worth Sitting With

Each edition of the 3-2-1 newsletter ends with a question. This week’s feels especially fitting as a new year begins:

If you met your 80-year-old self today, what would they beg you to stop postponing?

That question isn’t about productivity.

It’s about identity.

It’s about remembering what matters before another year slips by.

Why I Share These Reflections Weekly

I often look to James Clear’s 3-2-1 newsletter as a starting point — not for answers, but for awareness. Each week, it offers a small pause in the noise, a reminder that growth doesn’t have to be harsh to be effective.

If you’d like to explore the original inspiration behind this post, you can read the full newsletter here:

👉 https://jamesclear.com/3-2-1/january-1-2026

For me, this is part of finding the joy — not chasing a better version of myself, but choosing to live in alignment with who I already am becoming.

A Gentler New Year: Finding the Joy, One Small Choice at a Time

The start of a new year often arrives with noise — resolutions, pressure, and promises to be more, do more, change everything.

👉 But what if this year didn’t need fixing?

At Find the Joy, I believe the New Year can be an invitation to Find Time for You, rather than a demand for perfection — a chance to pause, reflect, and gently ask:

What would help me feel a little better, a little calmer, a little more myself?

That question sits at the heart of Find the Joy — a space created to support women who give so much of themselves every day, and who deserve to stay self-well for life.

🌿 Finding a Healthier You (Without the Overwhelm)

One of the core pillars of Find the Joy is Find a Healthier You — not through restriction or rigid plans, but through nourishment, balance, and kindness.

Food is often where January focus lands, and understandably so. What we eat affects our energy, our mood, and how we move through our days. But instead of cutting things out, I encourage a gentler shift — adding in what supports you.


🧠 Good Food, Good Mood

I’m proud to be a Good Food, Good Mood Ambassador, because I’ve seen first-hand how food can support not just physical health, but emotional wellbeing too.

Nutritional psychiatrist Dr Uma Naidoo speaks widely about the connection between the food we eat, our gut health, and our mood — highlighting how whole, nutrient-rich foods can support emotional balance, focus, and resilience.

👉 Food isn’t just fuel — it’s information for your body and your brain.

Good Food, Good Mood

🌈 Eat the Rainbow: A Simple Place to Start

One of my favourite ways to support health (without complexity) is rainbow eating.

Eating a variety of colourful fruits and vegetables helps ensure you’re getting a wide range of nutrients — naturally and intuitively. It’s not about perfection or expensive ingredients, just small, joyful choices:

🍓 Bright berries and citrus fruits for antioxidants

🥦 Leafy greens for minerals and folate

🥕 Orange vegetables like carrots and squash for energy and immunity

🌱 Beans, lentils, seeds, and whole grains for fibre and steady blood sugar

🌈 Adding colour to your plate often adds joy too — and joy matters.


🌸 Nourishment Beyond the Plate

Health isn’t only about what we eat. It’s about how we live.

That’s why Find the Joy is built around Finding Time for You; a set of gentle, supportive pillars that work together for you:

🌿 Find a Healthier You – nourishing food and supportive habits

🌊 Find Your Flow – movement that feels good, not punishing

✨ Find Your Inspiration – books, voices, and ideas that uplift

🎨 Find You in Creativity – reconnecting with play and expression

🏠 Find Your Space Again – balance, boundaries, and breathing room

Together, the Find Time for You pillars offer a more sustainable way to feel well — especially for women juggling work, home, and caring for others.


A Different Kind of New Year Intention

This year, instead of resolutions, what if you chose support?

Instead of pressure, you chose permission?

Instead of “doing better,” you focused on feeling better?

Find the Joy is here to walk alongside you — with gentle encouragement, practical ideas, and reminders that well-being doesn’t need to be complicated to be powerful.

👉 Join Find the Joy

If this message resonates with you, I’d love for you to join the Find the Joy community.

Explore the pillars, read along with the blog, and take what you need — whether that’s inspiration, nourishment, creativity, or simply permission to slow down. Find the Joy is a space where small steps are celebrated, and where your well-being matters too.

✨ Here’s to a New Year filled with nourishment, balance, and moments of joy — one gentle choice at a time.

Find Time for You

S’more’s Cookies as as New Year’s Eve Treat – A family favourite recipe – Eat Bird Food

There are certain foods in our family that instantly bring joy — not just because they taste amazing, but because of the memories we make around them. This year, as part of our New Year’s Eve celebrations, we baked a batch of Smores Cookies from Eating Bird Food and they were an absolute hit!

Whether you’re welcoming the New Year with loved ones or just looking for a delicious treat, these cookies are a must-try. Even better? With ingredients like oat flour and coconut oil, they feel just that little bit more wholesome without sacrificing any flavour.

➡️ Original recipe from Eating Bird Food: https://www.eatingbirdfood.com/smores-cookies/

🍪 What Makes These Cookies So Special

These aren’t your average sweet treat — they’re a perfect blend of gooey marshmallow, melty chocolate, toasty edges, and a comforting oat base. But beyond their irresistible flavour, there’s something to be said about the ingredients that make them nourishing as well.

🌾 Oat Flour – A Heartier Base

Instead of using just refined white flour, this recipe relies on oat flour (which you can make at home by blitzing oats until fine). Oat flour offers:

More fibre than traditional all-purpose flour

A gentle, slow-digesting carbohydrate that helps keep you full

A naturally nutty flavour that pairs beautifully with chocolate and marshmallow

Oats also contain plant compounds called beta-glucans, which have been linked with heart health and balanced blood sugar levels

👉 — a lovely bonus in such a delicious cookie!

🥥 Coconut Oil – A Healthier Fat Swap

Coconut oil is the fat used in these cookies, and for good reason:

It adds moisture and chewiness to baked goods

It’s plant-based and dairy-free (perfect for many dietary preferences)

It provides a subtle, warm flavour that complements chocolate perfectly

Coconut oil contains medium-chain triglycerides (MCTs), which are easily digested and can be used by the body as quick energy

👉 — making your New Year’s Eve treat feel just a bit more nourishing.

🍫 The Good Stuff — Chocolate + Marshmallow

Okay, let’s be honest: the real fun in these cookies comes from the gooey marshmallow and melty chocolate. But pairing these with oat flour and coconut oil means you’re balancing indulgence with intention — something I always love bringing into celebrations.

It’s a reminder that food can be both joyful and thoughtful, without needing to choose one or the other.

🎉 How We Enjoyed Them

We baked these cookies on New Year’s Eve as part of our family celebrations, and watching everyone reach for seconds felt like a small but meaningful moment of shared joy. Soft centres, toasty edges, and big smiles all around… what better way to ring in a new year?

Pair these with a cosy drink, slow conversation, and your favourite people — and you’ve got a recipe for joy.

🍽️ Final Thoughts

Delicious, comforting, and just a little bit special — these Smores Cookies remind me why baking together is one of life’s simple joys. With ingredients like oat flour and coconut oil, we get the best of both worlds: sweetness that feels intentional and memories that last.

Curious to try them yourself? You can find the full recipe over at Eating Bird Food — the link is above. And if you make them, I’d love to hear how your family enjoyed them too! 💛